Text Box: Knowing that you are serious about living a life you love with the partner you desire, you will welcome the opportunity to cover a myriad of issues and solutions for singles.  You can finally answer those undeniable questions, such as:
How as a single person can I have a successful life partnership and the kind of life that you want.  
How can I prepare for a fulfilling and lasting relationship as a single?   
As a Therapist for over 20 years, I decided that my mission is to help others create a successful life partnership.  How relationships work has always been fascinating even to me. As with other areas of life, time and technology changes things and the approach to dating and relationships has to change as well.  
One of the most significant changes is that we’ve developed a need to be happy.   Couples in the past were satisfied just to survive and achieve some measure of comfort and security for themselves and their family.  While the need for happiness sounds very simple and innocent, in reality it is the underlying foundation for failed relationships today. And, with the failed relationships, we are left to experience the effects:  a high divorce rate, single parent families, mental and physical health problems, juvenile delinquency, welfare, and on and on. 
Even though we seek to be happy in relationships, we don't seem to know how and in larger numbers, we are seeking help from other sources, such as Life Coaching.  I have added the coaching skills to my therapy practice in order that I might facilitate a process where people can find happiness by learning to clarify their life purpose, goals, and vision, and find the support and empowerment to get what they want in life.
Taking a multi-directional approach to finding happiness in relationships, I work with clients in several phases:


















The goal for my Relationship Coaching programs is to provide solutions for those single clients who have experienced relationship failure, are scared and confused about relationships, and have often given up hope for finding happiness with a partner, resigning themselves to either being alone or having to settle for a relationship that doesn't really work for them.  The result for these singles would be that they can finally be excited about their life, empowered and clear about relationships, and mobilized towards

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Text Box: I have no emotional or legal baggage from a previous relationship. My schedule, commitments and lifestyle allow my availability to build a new relationship.



Text Box: I am satisfied with my work/career
My work is fulfilling, supports my lifestyle, and does not interfere with my availability for a new relationship.


6. I am healthy in mind, body, and spirit

My physical, mental, or emotional health does not interfere with having the life and relationship that I want. I am reasonably happy and feel good.

 

My financial and legal business is handled

I have no financial or legal issues that would interfere with having the life and relationship that I want.

 

My family relationships are functional

My relationships with my children, ex, siblings, parents, and extended family do not interfere with having the life and relationship that I want.

 

I have effective dating skills

I initiate contact with people I want to meet, and disengage from people who are not a match for me. I keep my physical and emotional boundaries, and balance my heart with my head with potential partners.

 

I have effective relationship skills

I understand relationships, can maintain closeness and intimacy, communicate authentically and assertively, negotiate difference positively, allow myself to trust and be vulnerable, and can give and receive love without emotional barriers.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 Text Box: Relationship Readiness Quiz For Singles

To assess your readiness for a committed relationship, print this out or use a separate piece of paper, and rate yourself in each of the following ten areas. Try to be objective and honest with yourself. We recommend asking close friends and family members for their opinions as well.


  0-4: Needs Work; this area could interfere with the success of my next relationship

Text Box: I know what I want
I have a clear vision for my life and relationship. I can envision my perfect life in rich detail that feels strong, very real, and keeps me motivated.

I know my requirements
I have a written list of at least ten non-negotiable requirements that I use for screening potential partners. I am clear that if any are missing, a relationship will not work for me.

I am happy and successful being single
I enjoy my life, my work, my family, my friends, and my own company. I am living the life that I want, and I am not seeking a relationship out of desperation and need.

I am ready and available for commitment


Text Box: I have no emotional or legal baggage from a previous relationship. My schedule, commitments and lifestyle allow my availability to build a new relationship.



Text Box: I am satisfied with my work/career
My work is fulfilling, supports my lifestyle, and does not interfere with my availability for a new relationship.


6. I am healthy in mind, body, and spirit

My physical, mental, or emotional health does not interfere with having the life and relationship that I want. I am reasonably happy and feel good.

 

My financial and legal business is handled

I have no financial or legal issues that would interfere with having the life and relationship that I want.

 

My family relationships are functional

My relationships with my children, ex, siblings, parents, and extended family do not interfere with having the life and relationship that I want.

 

I have effective dating skills

I initiate contact with people I want to meet, and disengage from people who are not a match for me. I keep my physical and emotional boundaries, and balance my heart with my head with potential partners.

 

I have effective relationship skills

I understand relationships, can maintain closeness and intimacy, communicate authentically and assertively, negotiate difference positively, allow myself to trust and be vulnerable, and can give and receive love without emotional barriers.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


Text Box: Ready for the life and relationship that you really want?
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