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Text Box: Got Love?

Text Box: To assess your readiness for a committed relationship, print this out or use a separate piece of paper, and rate yourself in each of the following ten areas. Try to be objective and honest with yourself. We recommend asking close friends and family members for their opinions as well.

Text Box: I know what I want I have a clear vision for my life and relationship. I can envision my perfect life in rich detail that feels strong, very real, and keeps me motivated. I know my requirements I have a written list of at least ten non-negotiable requirements that I use for screening potential partners. I am clear that if any are missing, a relationship will not work for me. I am happy and successful being single I enjoy my life, my work, my family, my friends, and my own company. I am living the life that I want, and I am not seeking a relationship out of desperation and need. I am ready and available for commitment


Text Box: I have no emotional or legal baggage from a previous relationship. My schedule, commitments and lifestyle allow my availability to build a new relationship.



Text Box: I am satisfied with my work/career My work is fulfilling, supports my lifestyle, and does not interfere with my availability for a new relationship.


6. I am healthy in mind, body, and spirit

My physical, mental, or emotional health does not interfere with having the life and relationship that I want. I am reasonably happy and feel good.

 

My financial and legal business is handled

I have no financial or legal issues that would interfere with having the life and relationship that I want.

 

My family relationships are functional

My relationships with my children, ex, siblings, parents, and extended family do not interfere with having the life and relationship that I want.

 

I have effective dating skills

I initiate contact with people I want to meet, and disengage from people who are not a match for me. I keep my physical and emotional boundaries, and balance my heart with my head with potential partners.

 

I have effective relationship skills

I understand relationships, can maintain closeness and intimacy, communicate authentically and assertively, negotiate difference positively, allow myself to trust and be vulnerable, and can give and receive love without emotional barriers.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 Text Box: Relationship Readiness Quiz For Singles To assess your readiness for a committed relationship, print this out or use a separate piece of paper, and rate yourself in each of the following ten areas. Try to be objective and honest with yourself. We recommend asking close friends and family members for their opinions as well.  0-4: Needs Work; this area could interfere with the success of my next relationship

Text Box: I know what I want I have a clear vision for my life and relationship. I can envision my perfect life in rich detail that feels strong, very real, and keeps me motivated. I know my requirements I have a written list of at least ten non-negotiable requirements that I use for screening potential partners. I am clear that if any are missing, a relationship will not work for me. I am happy and successful being single I enjoy my life, my work, my family, my friends, and my own company. I am living the life that I want, and I am not seeking a relationship out of desperation and need. I am ready and available for commitment


Text Box: I have no emotional or legal baggage from a previous relationship. My schedule, commitments and lifestyle allow my availability to build a new relationship.



Text Box: I am satisfied with my work/career My work is fulfilling, supports my lifestyle, and does not interfere with my availability for a new relationship.


6. I am healthy in mind, body, and spirit

My physical, mental, or emotional health does not interfere with having the life and relationship that I want. I am reasonably happy and feel good.

 

My financial and legal business is handled

I have no financial or legal issues that would interfere with having the life and relationship that I want.

 

My family relationships are functional

My relationships with my children, ex, siblings, parents, and extended family do not interfere with having the life and relationship that I want.

 

I have effective dating skills

I initiate contact with people I want to meet, and disengage from people who are not a match for me. I keep my physical and emotional boundaries, and balance my heart with my head with potential partners.

 

I have effective relationship skills

I understand relationships, can maintain closeness and intimacy, communicate authentically and assertively, negotiate difference positively, allow myself to trust and be vulnerable, and can give and receive love without emotional barriers.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


Text Box: Ready for the life and relationship that you really want? Ask about our Relationship Success Training for Singles

Rating Scale:  Rate each item on a scale from 0-10